I’m Kayla, born in a Rat year. I’ve heard the jokes. Clever. Quick. A little sneaky. Honestly? Some of it hits close to home. Some of it doesn’t. If you’d like the textbook rundown of classic Rat traits, you can find a crisp summary right here.
But I’ve lived with this label my whole life, and I’ve tested it in tiny ways—at work, at the store, at dinner with my loud family.
If you want to see how another “Rat” breaks it all down, skim the hilarious field notes in this first-person review.
If you’re curious about the deeper folklore behind the Rat and the rest of the zodiac, check out the clear, story-rich overview at The Goddess.
Let me explain.
A quick hello from a small “planner”
My grandma used to call me “little storehouse.” I’d tuck snacks in my coat and save bus money in my shoe. That’s very Rat, right? I still keep trail mix in my purse, and yes, I do count the almonds.
I like saving. I like knowing what’s next. I also like people more than I admit. Rats are “charmers,” they say. I wouldn’t go that far. I just love a good story and a clean spreadsheet.
Money: careful, not cheap
Here’s the thing. I watch prices. I keep apps for that. One time at a flea market in Portland, I saw a denim jacket for $40. I asked the seller about the frayed cuffs, smiled, and waited. He said, “Make an offer.” I said $25, cash. We shook hands. My friend laughed because I’d even checked the pockets first.
I track my budget every Sunday night. It’s not fancy. Notes app, a few emoji, and a color code. Last winter I planned a trip to see my cousin. I found a flight for $89. I brought snacks so I wouldn’t pay $6 for a tiny cookie. That felt very Rat. But no, I didn’t bring the whole pantry. I’m careful, not stingy.
My roommate Ana, a laid-back Water Pig, reads my spreadsheet and then shrugs—her sign’s philosophy is all about enjoying the moment; if you’re curious, here’s her own blow-by-blow review of life as a Water Pig.
Work: fast brain, safe bets
At work, I move fast. I keep tabs open like they’re popcorn. I take notes with little boxes to check off. When my team needed a quick plan for a school fundraiser, I tossed out steps, a cost list, and a backup idea—just in case it rained. It did rain. We had tents. We were fine.
Still, I can be too cautious. I once turned down a new project because the timeline seemed fuzzy. Later, I took a smaller one that had a clear map. That felt smart at the time. Later-later, I wished I’d been braver. Rats like safety. We also hate missing out. So I’m learning to ask for clearer steps, then go for it.
Contrast that with Leo, our 1998 Earth Tiger analyst who pounces on every ambiguous brief—he swears the ground-under-paw confidence comes straight from his sign, and he even wrote an honest take on being an Earth Tiger if you’re wondering how that feels.
Friends and love: slow to trust, then all in
I’m warm but private. I’ll remember your coffee order. I’ll also test you a bit. Not games—just small things. Do you show up on time? Do you keep a story to yourself? If yes, I’m yours.
With my partner, I plan surprises. Little ones. A picnic with his favorite chips. A movie list sorted by mood. I’m loyal, but I overthink. If a text sounds off, I read it five times. He’ll say, “It’s fine, Kay.” He’s right. I breathe. I let it go.
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Fun fact: he’s a Water Horse, which means he gallops through plans I’ve spent days perfecting—his own perspective is captured in this frank Water Horse memoir. And yes, our signs actually pair up better than you’d think—see where Rat and Horse rank on the broader match chart here.
The clutter corner no one sees
Rats get called “collectors.” Fair. I have a drawer of old cables. They all look the same. One time a friend helped me clean. She asked, “Do you need three phone chargers for phones you don’t own?” I said, “Maybe?” We laughed. We kept one.
I like neat things. I also like “backup” things. So I do a trick: one in, one out. New hoodie in, old hoodie out. It keeps me honest.
Family stories: red envelopes and quick talkers
Every Lunar New Year, my aunt (also a Rat) and I fold dumplings while we talk way too fast. We both tell the same story at the same time. It’s funny and messy and warm.
In 2020, when we couldn’t gather, we made dumplings on video and showed our bowls to the screen. My cousin said mine looked “very Kayla”—small, neat, too many. I grinned. I ate five with chili crisp and saved the rest. Of course I saved them.
When the Rat parts get messy
- I can get sneaky about snacks. I once hid cookies behind oatmeal so my roommates wouldn’t eat them. I told them after. We laughed, but I also said sorry. I don’t need to hide food. I can share, or I can label the box like an adult.
- I can cling to plans. If we change dinner spots last minute, my brain buzzes. I say, “Give me a sec.” I open Maps. I find parking. Then I’m fine.
That’s the mild contradiction. I like control, but I can flex. It just takes a breath and a beat.
Little tips if you love a Rat
- Share plans early. Dates, times, and money stuff help us relax.
- Don’t tease us for saving. It’s how we show care.
- Keep promises. We remember broken ones.
- Let us help. Lists and snacks are our love language.
- Tell the truth, even if it’s awkward. Trust is everything.
So… does the Rat label fit?
Kind of. It’s a frame, not a cage. I’m clever sometimes, and I plan a lot. I’m also soft. I cry at rescue dog videos. I hoard batteries and give them to neighbors. I can haggle at a yard sale, then tip well at breakfast.
You know what? Being a Rat, for me, means this: I watch the small stuff so life runs smooth. I stash little comforts. I take care of my people. I try not to hide cookies. And I keep learning when to hold tight—and when to let go.