Getting started in prostate massage
When we think of male pleasure, we think of the penis, but it is not the only way to enjoy it, since there are other erogenous zones such as the testicles or the prostate.
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So in order to help you know how to have a prostate orgasm, discover below everything you need to know to get started in prostate massage, alone or in pairs.
What is the prostate gland?
It is often said that the prostate is a small chestnut, a name given because of the shape of this sexual gland.
Is located under the bladder, It is in the prostate gland that the seminal fluid, which is essential to obtain semen, is produced, and during ejaculation, the prostate contracts and expels the seminal fluid.
It is a erogenous zone very sensitive, like the anus, testicles or penis, it can be stimulated by anal penetration or with a perineum massage.
Unfortunately, we think more often of the prostate in medical terms, because it is an area that men must medically control as they get older, and we talk more often about prostate cancer than prostate orgasm.
How to do a prostate massage?
It is possible to massage the prostate with a sex toy, one (or two) fingers or a penis.
Before starting anything, the important thing is to talk to your partner so that everyone is comfortable or to know when to stop if it doesn’t work in the end.
Preparing for a two-person prostate massage
For the man who will receive the massage, it is advisable to take a shower and pee, as this massage makes you feel like you need to pee.
You might as well be sure to have an empty bladder so you can relax despite the new sensations.
For the masseur, it is important to wash hands, cut nails and remove rings.
Finally, it is necessary to provide lubricant within reach because the anus is not like the vagina, it does not lubricate itself.
Which position to choose for anal penetration?
There is no such thing as no perfect position.
It’s up to you to choose the position in which you feel most comfortable: you have to try, vary, to find what’s right for you; some men like to lie on your side, in the fetal position.
You can also lie on your back with a cushion under your buttocks and legs bent against your chest, or on your stomach, again with a cushion to lift your buttocks.
Gently massage the prostate gland
Do not hesitate to be generous with the lubricant and go easy on it.
It is necessary to start by playing, gently, on the perineum, around the anus, to relax the muscles, put your partner at ease, start by inserting the fingertip, pull it out, start again, put two fingers.
Then you have to find the prostate, it is an area with a different texture, and above all it is a very erogenous point, so the pleasure that rises in the person being massaged also helps to evolve.
When the prostate is found, it should be gently stroked with the fingertips (and never with the fingernails) and this is how you can play until you reach prostate orgasm.
Allow yourself to enjoy the massage
Many taboos are associated with anal penetration, and it is the ideas that create real blockages and slow down pleasure.
For the massage to be successful, you must allow yourself to have fun through anal penetration, which can take a little time and therefore a longer than usual evening of naughty games.
How to get a solo prostate orgasm?
Prostate massage is a pleasure that is not reserved for couples; on the contrary, for the first time, it is even advisable to try it alone, in order to discover new sensations at your own pace.
If for a first discovery of anal penetration the fingers are enough, for prostate massage it is more complicated, so it is necessary opt for a sex toy, a prostate stimulator.
It should be chosen non-vibrating and gentle, and the use of a lubricant is essential.
Once the toy is in place, do not engage in a back and forth movement, but let the body’s natural contractions gently move the sex toy and thus stimulate pleasure.
Can prostate disorders be prevented with these massages?
There are several more or less serious prostate disorders, and for each of them, we find the same advice to avoid them:
- have regular sexual activity,
- have a regular sporting activity,
- limit your consumption of beer, coffee, chilli and meat,
- massage your prostate regularly.
While this advice is 100% effective or not, it is one of the most pleasant tips on the list, so it’s a good time to have some fun, if it also takes care of our health!